Monday, December 03, 2012

Stressed Out Recommends

So have I said before that when I am stressed out, I'm not feeling super creative. I plan to have lots of holiday recommends coming later but until then I am going to throw a few things out right now.  They all relate in some odd way to stress.

First, I just want to throw this out there. I am sorry friends on Facebook but I really don't want to hear what you are thankful for all month long. I know you probably think differently but some of it feels disingenuous. If you need to be thankful, instead of posting on the internet every day, my recommendation is that you either call someone or perhaps write them a letter or note. I am sure they would be really thankful for that personal contact.

There is something to be said for loud and pounding music when you are feeling stressed out. I used to want silence or classical music and certainly there is a time for that as well. But I have had more days where I just want something with a loud, pounding bass. Green Day's "Know Your Enemy" is a good choice, also Ministry does a cover of "Thunderstruck" that is pretty great. I've recently refound the song "Oh My God" by Jay Z. They have been using it for a movie promo in January and I just loved how they edited it. There are a few other songs that can be turned up loud..."Starships" by Nicki Minaj, "Waka Waka" by Shakira, "Eye of the Tiger" by Survivor, "Seether" by Veruca Salt & don't forget the Offspring.

Laundry can helps with stress. I'm a big fan of those scented Downy fabric softeners. They are downright lovely smelling and can help to make your laundry feel good, even if you aren't necessarily feeling so great.

I also find that action movies are helpful. Old episodes of "Alias" since there is always guaranteed to be some kind of fight/heist/travel are pretty great along with anything other knock 'em out, drag 'em out fight style movies. I find that when others are fighting or running, how I am feeling seems inconsequential.

Baking! Seems today that you don't have to do the slow process of rising and pounding the dough. But just in case you feel like taking it out on some yeast, flour and water. Here it is! Try some new recipes. Maybe some biscuits or cinnamon rolls or honey rosemary bread. I always recommend Mark Bittman but you can always find some new recipes especially in magazines around the holidays.

Finally, a massage. I belonged to Massage Envy until that was one of the things I had to cut out of my budget. Most companies like that offer a reduced rate for the first one and less than standard massage prices if you have a membership. I have the same person that I have gone to for some time but if I ever have a new person, I usually ask for someone who specializes in medical massage. I want to know how to avoid pulled muscles in the future but since I have a low pain threshold, I also want to be sure that I will relax and not be worried about a heavy handed massage. Stress causes me to pull all kinds of strange muscles so a massage is just what the doctor ordered.

So go out and find something positive to do with that stress!





Saturday, November 17, 2012

Backtracking Recommends

I'm taking a little step back to think through some musical memories from the 80s-early 90s. This will really be part one because I have many mini phases during those years. But here are a few songs I'd recommend you listen to.

I went to Catholic school so dances had pretty much been outlawed...until I was in 8th grade. Of course the girls and the guys couldn't decide on the same theme so we had to blend them. The theme turned out to be 1984-Thriller (Van Halen-Michael Jackson.) There were a few too many single gloved hands, fake leather jackets and acid washed denim. But the music was really good. MJ has been gone a few years now and it's sad that we didn't have more. Take a listen to PYT, Can't Stop Until You Get Enough, and Smooth Criminal. My favorite VH songs are "Right Now" and "Jump."

I entered into my imported British music phase soon thereafter and fell in love with Scritti Politti. I think I watched the video for "Perfect Way" over and over. Something to be said for those beloved pop songs. When in Rome's "The Promise" along with songs like "Blister in the Sun," "How Soon is Now," "Obsession," "Keep Feeling Fascination," "Just Can't Get Enough" and "Rock Lobster."

These songs were not really played on the radio unless you had access to an "alternative" or new wave station. Now it seems like everything is accessible which is both good and too easy. Sometimes you have to really work to find great stuff. I am sure that my friends who went dancing with me in those days probably have big CD or digital music collections like me. Great stuff there.

Today I listened to a lot of The Cure. Lots of remixes and live versions are now available which I love. I did have some albums--12" imports-- but no real way to listen to them. At least now you can access nearly all digitally which is great when I need to have a little fix...like "Close to Me," "In Between Days," and "Let's Go to Bed."

And Bands...so many great bands! B-52s, New Order (God I love the song "Temptation"), The Smiths, REM, Talking Heads, PIL, INXS and so many more. Food for thought...




Monday, October 08, 2012

Today's Recommends

Whenever I have a lot going on at work or I have been traveling, I find myself unable to post to my blog. It is when I am reading and being creative that I have the most the say. This Fall has been no exception. From back to back trips to a kind of work schedule that makes me want to sleep until noon on the weekends, it's been hard to find any creativity.

That being said, there are a few bright stars.


I am sure you know that my "sexy-ugly" guy Jack White has a new album. He does a cover of "I'm Shakin'" by the Blasters which I have loved since my dear friend Al from Old St. Pat's made me a mixed tape based on my enneagram results. Not only has music played a huge role in my life but it was a BIG part of my Chicago life. I saw the last Grateful Dead show ever, which I had to stand in line several days before to get my bracelet, which I had to wear to work for like 3 days. #partyfoul I saw Sarah McLachlan with my sister, DMB so many times I can't remember, Pearl Jam at Alpine with Emily Potter and others, Phish and the crazy camping night (my only camping experience so I'm done now) and a thousand other shows with friends like Ellen (EDBJ) and my brother Kevin, and sisters. Not the least of which were the World's Largest Block Party. Yes I worked for a church and helped to book rock bands. Cool.

Grand Rapids celebrated Pulaski Days this past weekend. I can't remember how many I have been to and probably just as many I've been away. In younger days, it was canned beer, polka dancing and kielbasa. I think the beer got a little better, everything else stayed the same. My mom posted pics on her FB this week of her and my Aunt Pat in their Polish costumes. Beautiful colored outfits with ribbons and headpieces. My cousin Julie was Pulaski Queen and I am proud that we break Opatki each Christmas with the Krzeminski side. My grandmother Helen passed this year and she was a lovely, spunky Polish lady that gave us a little extra step ball-change in our step.

Football! It was a banner week for the home team and one of my Alma Mater's the University of South Carolina. 85k+ people at Williams-Brice Stadium to watch USC take on Georgia...and we not just won this SEC battle, we trounced them. Can you say Sandstorm? Michigan also won, thank God because it has been a rough year in the Big Ten, especially after I went to Dallas to watch the Cowboy Classic when we played Alabama. My friends are amazing, the experience was memorable but the game...well heartbreaking. Still #goblue.

I am knee deep in the second Hunger Games book. I'm trying to draw it out so I don't whip through them. The movie for the "Perks of Being a Wallflower" came out recently. I got to see a preview this summer in CA at ALA. Amazing! Go see it but PLEASE read the book. Especially because it's

BANNED BOOKS WEEK!
The Holy Grail for Librarians! Start with Perks, look at Annie on my Mind, everything by JK Rowling, Chris Crutcher and Judy Blume, And Tango Makes Three (picture book), Catcher in The Rye, The Great Gatsby, The Color Purple, Bridge to Terebithia and really anything from this site: http://www.ala.org/advocacy/banned/bannedbooksweek.

That's all for now. Will check in later, post wedding Polka!


Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Summer Vaca Recommends



Having just spent a week on the beach of Lake Michigan, I know I have a lot of recommends to share but most of them have gone out the window, or maybe off the hammock.

I did enjoy a few things, guilty pleasures if you will.

Real Simple magazine. Always a very useful read. There are tips, recipes, health related stories and a variety of things to use right away and file for future projects. My favorite items are the recipes, usually with some kind of theme like summer foods or new vegetable preparations, and the HBA products they test and rate, like sunscreen.

I'm so in love with author Gabrielle Zevin. Her second book in the series hasn't been published but I got an ARC at ALA. It's called "Because It is My Blood." This is the continuation of "All These Things I've Done" and I am happy to learn more about Anya Ballenchine, the strong lead character, daughter of the deceased mob boss and heir to a black market chocolate empire.

The Olympics were on so I watched a lot of that, except track and field because I'm not a fan of those sports, but two of my fav shows (the only kind of reality shows I would watch--cooking and sewing) are back! Top Chef Masters and Project Runway, Season 10. Although I'm not connecting with too many contestants this go round, they are always fun to watch. I am happy to see Tim Gunn back -- and he has a new book out -- and some of my fav chefs including Luc, the Chef in the Hat. I am hoping I can get a reservation at his restaurant when I'm back in Seattle at the end of the month. On the television drama side, I'm sad to see Brenda Lee Johnson and "The Closer" end their run, Rizzoli & Isles is also coming to a close this season but I'm looking forward to welcoming "Grimm" back!

My dad had a few nice bottles of Zinfandel, 7 Deadly Zins. It is a great addition to a meal of beef or pork and nicely priced. Always a good gift to bring to a party.

The Karaoke Kab! What can I say? At my sister's bachelorette party, we had a little further to go to find the dance club and my cousin Molly made the night. Turns out that there is a miniva/cab that you can ride for $3pp and it will take you where you need to go as you sing your heart out following the words on the screen. Why yes...we did do a fantastic rendition of "Don't Stop Believing" and "Baby Got Back" among a few other favorites. It was such great fun even if we aren't, unlike Molly professed, taking it to Broadway.

The ride followed by cheesy dance songs, yes please! I am feeling good about the fact that I was all up on the dance music. Nicki Minaj, Pitbull, Flo Rida and some new boy bands...Fun, One Direction and The Wanted. All in good fun.

Now it's back to the ranch. Hope you had a great summer vacation too!




Thursday, August 02, 2012

My Recommends: Today's Places

I've been thinking about what I want to write about lately. There has been a lot going on and every so often, usually in inconvenient places like the shower, I come up with something brilliant to post.
And then I forget.
Oh well.
So today I'll focus on some foreign places that I have visited which I would recommend. I love to travel and I have had such good fortune to be able to go to as many places as I have. I was able to study abroad, travel as a teenager on a People to People trip, go back as a young professional, enjoy New Year celebrations in Lisbon, Vienna, and London, and spend time getting to know the people, often by renting a car and driving the countryside.


SCOTLAND
The Olympics are going on so naturally, I often think about the UK. Most importantly, I remember back to living in Edinburgh, Scotland. I just loved it. I went with an American program that put me in classes and dorms with students from around the world. I really appreciated that. With Arthur's Seat as my backyard, interesting classes, the history of Edinburgh all around me and some Scottish friends (and their families) to teach me about this majestic country. I have traveled from north to south, east to west and would be so grateful to return. Some of the recommended places to see besides Edinburgh are St. Andrew's, Aberdeen, Inverness, Arbroath, Glasgow, the Borders, and Isle of Skye.

IRELAND
Ireland, it's the one place on earth
That heaven has kissed
With melody, mirth,
And meadow and mist.


I love Ireland and all it's places. I have been all around the country many times and to the islands. Each time I have traveled there are more parts that enchant me, even more beautiful home places, rainbows, mountains, the sea and the people. Be sure to spend time up in Westport, Kilkenny, Killarney, Cork and the Ring of Kerry.


CANADA
Oh Canada, my home and native land...
I love Canada. Not just because I grew up in Michigan which often feels a kinship with the border nation. We accept their change without looking twice. We used to not even have to show ID to cross the border. I think the most extraordinary thing about Canada is how different all the places are. I had the good fortune of taking a Canadian Studies class and it was fascinating. Many people do not realize how interesting and unique this country is. I have been to Montreal and Quebec many times. True joy. I'd recommend a trip to Vancouver and Victoria Island--gorgeous especially in August and September. Nova Scotia and Newfoundland are extremely interesting and the mountains of Banff are perfect for more than just winter sports.


Other recommended places...
Salzburg, Austria--I am a huge "Sound of Music" fan (both play and movie). My brother and I danced around the gazebo in the snow. Also enjoyed New Year's Eve and Sylvesterabend, the eve of St. Sylvester.  There are food stands all over the street where people can spend the day and evening eating and drinking a glog like punch.


Caernarfon Castle in Gwynedd, Wales is a beautiful place. Lots of castles and places to visit in Wales. I think a lot of people hit the bigger cities and miss some of the smaller or out of the way places. I was fortunate to be able to drive all around the country with my good friend Aki.


County Antrim, Northern Ireland. Best known for the gorgeous Giant's Causeway. Also worth seeing is the Carrick-a-Rede rope bridge linking the mainland to the island of Carickarede. Breathtaking, and a little scary too.


We went to Belize in one of the stops. I am sure there was so much more to see so I  would recommend another trip back. The people were wonderful and the water so blue.


Barcelona. There was something so great about the blending of historical and contemporary in this beautiful city. The food is outstanding and the Picasso Museum is a not to be missed site!


Venice. My favorite city in Italy. I could have spent so much time but was unable. The Hill Towns are also gorgeous and worth visiting each and every one, especially Assisi.


Portugal. I really loved the people of Portugal, especially Lisbon. A beautiful city to walk and the craftsmanship in the pottery is wonderful.


There are never any shortage of places I want to go...
Japan
Australia
New Zealand
Puerto Rico
Paris (been to southern France but not Paris!)
Seychelles
Argentina
Iceland
Copenhagen
Sweden


Maybe one day...


Finally, a recommend for my aunt's cousin, Duncan. http://www.duncanjdsmith.com. He is a travel writer and photographer, explorer and storyteller. Having grown up in England, he now spends most of his time in Vienna. Take a look at his website and you might want to track down some of his books. They are wonderful.



Sunday, July 15, 2012

Belated Summer Recommends

When I travel, sometimes I forget that I even have a blog. Between meetings, sleeping, plane rides and other things, it takes me a while to get back into the swing of things. Then I realize how long it has been.


So...welcome Summer. It has been crazy hot, steamy, humid and peppered with wicked thunderstorms. It's the kind of weather where you either want to stay inside with a tall drink and lots of air conditioning or be laying on the beach with the breeze blowing and the water just steps away. Both require books.


I want to put a few items on a recommended reading list. 
First, check out Elin Hilderbrand's books. I liked "Barefoot" but there are a number of summer and island life books including one just released. She also wrote a nice article about how to survive summer! Take a look at this... http://www.hachettebookgroup.com/ElinHilderbrandArticle.aspx.


Mark Childress also has a new book..."Georgia Bottoms." Check out his page http://www.crazyinalabama.com including an essay for Kindle called Looking for Harper Lee.


Joshilyn Jackson has many books that I have enjoyed and one new one, "A Grown Up Kind of Pretty," which I am planning to read. I loved her first one, "Gods In Alabama" and chose it as a selection for my book club, back when NPR picked it as their fav summer read (that was several years ago now.) I sent an email before our book club meeting and she was kind enough to write back. She also has a blog and the name is great but even that isn't the best part! Read her blog Faster Than Kudzu at http://www.joshilynjackson.com/ftk.


A writer that I have had on my list for a while is J. Courtney Sullivan. I'm wanting to read "Maine" although I am interested in "Commencement" as well. Check out this New York Times piece: http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/12/books/review/book-review-maine-by-j-courtney-sullivan.html?pagewanted=all.


How excited am I that Claire Cook ("Must Love Dogs") has a new book! It's called "Wallflower in Bloom." She has a couple beach novels to keep with the theme--"Life's A Beach" and "Summer Blowout" -- which I have enjoyed. She has an informative web page and a blog too http://clairecook.com/author/blog/blog.html.


Richard Russo writes about Maine. I loved his Pulitzer prize winning book "Empire Falls" but only got about halfway through the next one. He has a great list to choose from and wrote a nice article about small towns: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=14806290. Find his other books here: http://www.randomhouse.com/knopf/authors/russo.


Finally, NPR always writes a summer list. Here is a nice list with a few other recommendations from Indie bookstore owners: http://www.npr.org/2012/05/25/152681721/15-summer-reads-handpicked-by-indie-booksellers. There is one on the list called "Glaciers" that I think would be great (http://www.npr.org/books/titles/153598556/glaciers). Isabel is a collector of vintage items looking through items in a library basement and thinking about the melting glaciers in Alaska, where she grew up.






Enjoy!

Sunday, June 10, 2012

My Recommends: The Whale Rider

I know I have written about this before but as we will see a new launch of films featuring strong female characters, I resurrected a favorite movie and book. It is such a compelling tale of the history of an indigenous people and the loss of identity through the generations. When the next Chief cannot live up to his birthright, his daughter becomes the unlikely hero. It doesn't matter whether it is male or female, what matters is the heart and faith that can lead a new generation. I love this book, told in the words of her uncle, who as the second, was also not good enough. But the slow moving beauty orchestrated in the film, from the jewel toned lands of New Zealand to the haunting chants of the Maori people truly inspire all to give of themselves. The book and the film are not loud, not assertive and not flashy. They are sweet, triumphant and graceful, a timeless story worthy of our time and a lesson for us all.

Tuesday, June 05, 2012

Today's Recommends: Music & Memories

Today I'm remembering music...and family & friends.


At NPR Music is Remembering Mom & Dad's Record Collection. Very cool. http://www.npr.org/2012/06/05/154152434/remembering-mom-and-dads-record-collection?ps=cprs


What other music has real memories for me?


I have been to so many concerts because I really love live music. My first concert (alone) was Huey Lewis and the News. I had to take my brother and it was at Lamar Park. I was in the 8th grade and he was...not. Embarrassing, well for me. Years later we were partners at so many other concerts. I'm a lucky girl. I was able to really take it up a notch from 1982. I've seen a lot of bands more than once I'm lucky to say. A few that I really have enjoyed include the Dave Matthews Band, U2, Rolling Stones, Jimmy Buffett, Mighty Blue Kings, Erasure, Depeche Mode, New Order, Chicago, Sarah McLachlan, Yes, John Mellancamp and Bruce Springsteen.


What do I like to listen to now...well if I am stressed, always the Brandenburg Concertos. Alison Krauss, Dido and anything Irish. I have some cheesy dance music for working out, "Eye of the Tiger" when I need to press through the day, something new and fun from Edward Sharpe and Magnetic Zeroes called "Home" (thanks Ellen & Kate), Ingrid Michaelson, Feist, Cake, Adele and the Talking Heads.


The most notorious concert? The LAST Grateful Dead show. I stood in line to get a bracelet so I could wear it for like 4 days to work and I couldn't get Saturday tickets at Soldier Field so I got Sunday tickets. Kevin, Jim, Ellen and I went. I really wanted to just feed everyone's dogs. Instead we had a few cocktails and enjoyed the show. Here's the set: http://www.dead.net/show/july-9-1995. And as we learned later, the last concert they would perform with JG at the helm.


Missy and I stood in line for tickets to Eric Clapton, the first time in Saratoga Springs, NY. Years later we saw his Blues Tour in LA. We totally graduated--lawn to seats. Woo hoo.


I also got to do a small private showing for charity in Chicago with the Barenaked Ladies. Tony Amonte was also there. It was double awesome. Only about 50 of us and it was a real treat.


I saw Sting with some friends outside of Boston and again with the Police during a reunion tour in Boston with my friend David. I love them. Would see them again and again. I love Sting's version of "Gabriel's Message" and the Spanish language album he did which included "Fragilidad."


I have a whole list of songs on Spotify that I call "over and over" which are a few that I love to listen to, literally, over and over.


Well, long before it was usurped by political parties, the Lyons Clan's fav song is "Don't Stop Believing" by Journey. Only the strong survive in a bar in Hell's Kitchen late into the night trying to bribe the DJ to play it while we sing to the monkey.








Ok mom's side. We'll start with Grandma Krzeminski. Who other than the Polish Prince? Bobby Vinton: http://youtu.be/5E6sS21Xirs singing Moja Droga. Always a favorite at weddings and Pulaski Days (first weekend in October, Grand Rapids, MI.)


Mom always reminds me of Doris Day...all the music, movies and plain upbeat attitude. Que Sera! This isn't from the actual movie but a nice montage nonetheless. http://youtu.be/xZbKHDPPrrc.


Dad? Besides the fact that he LOVES the Pointer Sisters, and yes, the whole family went to the concert. Twice. He told me once that when he wants to drive fast, he listens to Genesis. Oh Phil lovers here's a live one for you: http://youtu.be/cK3N2DC3Fds


And two for the price of one, dedicated to the man who taught us all about Motown, http://youtu.be/xHstlUiEaos.  A true musical education-- Four Tops, Temptations and so many more.


OK--dedicated to my brother. Easy Lover by Phil Collins and Philip Bailey. What else? http://youtu.be/E1WYimAC7wo. Give Kev a few beers and watch him dance. Of course we're right there with him.


Kendra? The millions of songs and what would I choose? Canadians of course! www.youtube.com/watch?v=5zYpqQW8CwI.  Watch BNL live!


Her sweet husband? Oh Brent introduced us to a whole other genre. After a half time show, this became Denny's fav too. Ha ha! Just one of his many dudes, Pitbull. http://youtu.be/EPo5wWmKEaI


I've already covered Kevin so let's move on to Jess. I love this song and happy to dance to it at all major events even though technically it's a Kirchen family song: http://youtu.be/BWP-AsG5DRk


Young Carson? What else? Little Einsteins. http://youtu.be/-utKYYXVT7I Start the countdown! Joey became legendary at Kendra & Brent's wedding for his "Moosh Moosh" it or as we know it as "Move It" from Madagascar. Abby seems to have a lot of favorites. I'm really looking forward to us finding a girl dance song at Aunt Allie's wedding.


Jack, the soon to be newest member of the family, is on his way to Bonnaroo. It may not be his favorite place because he likes a lot of music but I have recently learned it has a channel of its own. http://www.youtube.com/bonnaroo365


Allie and I have gone to so many concerts together. Paul Simon, Dave Matthews, BNL, OSP's Block Party events and so many more. However we share a strong LOVE of 80s music. I taught her well. Here is a little Depeche Mode flashback: http://youtu.be/_6FBfAQ-NDE


For my friends...
Ellen introduced me to Jackopierce and I have loved them ever since. Find their cover of "Please Come To Boston" on itunes.


Heidi and I went to Europe in 1987 in the thick of the British Imports. I'd have to say "Midnight" by Yaz or anything by U2 off the "Between These Crowded Streets" CD (then album!)


Julie? She introduced me to Alison Krauss and she has been a true favorite ever since. Such talent from her and her band. "When You Say Nothing At All" is awesome but also is her version of "Oh Atlanta."


The original Florida girl, Jo, is a long time Jimmy Buffett fan. My Dad loves "Cheeseburger in Paradise" but I thought we might always dance to "Little Miss Magic." A couple other favorites include "Love & Luck" and "Come Monday."


Heather and I only agreed on two musical groups back in college and one of them is James Taylor. We saw him outside Boston at a venue I'm sure has been renamed several times since the early 90s. He is still a joy every time I see him. Too many songs to know what might be my favorite. But if you see him live, hope he sings "Fire and Rain" and also any of his blues songs. He is a talented musician.


Crazy Sue? Who else but Big Head Todd. I was really happy when he played the Block Party. I hope she kept the autograph I got her. I love "Resignation Superman" live.


The Old St. Pat's Block Party years. So many great bands over the years. The year after the hoopla with the Counting Crows, we brought the Tragically Hip. Although my favorite song is still "Let's Stay Engaged" many people know "Ahead by a Century" best: http://youtu.be/QE2joQsWXJg.


Finally, what is the BEST song in the world? What do you think? One Word: Bo. http://youtu.be/PlS3twJWYSc
























Thursday, May 31, 2012

Busy Week Recommends

It has been a very busy week. I want to make some recommends for those long and busy weeks when you might want a few creature comforts!

Ok I have discovered a nice red wine. Not expensive and not heavy. Columbia-Crest two vines has a Vineyard 10 red. It's smooth and light which makes it good for summer.

I just finished John Green's book "The Fault in our Stars." I hear it's being made into a movie. Super well done. Other book-movie combos worth seeing--"One Day," "Hugo," "Under the Tuscan Sun," and "Holes."

Don't be giving up on the YA books. I know so many adults diving into young adult lit. Check out anything by Gabrielle Zevin's books, the rest of Suzanne Collins books, a cute book about (and yes, with recipes) Pie, anything by David Levithan (and his co-authors), and the Maggie Stiefvater various series.

Totally loving the Cheers bubble bath wash by Philosophy. Totally yummy. http://www.philosophy.com/party-girl/cheers-gel-product

Guys? Find a good old fashioned barber and get a good shave.

Had the most amazing fish, fried flounder with asparagus at Station 22 restaurant on Sullivan's Island, SC. Add the spinach and goat cheese salad or she-crab soup and some wine, and it is heaven!

Seattle Public Library has a book recommendation service, personal recommendations from a librarian. Way cool: http://www.spl.org/using-the-library/get-help/your-next-5-books

Hunger Games lover? Check out this ALA poster: http://www.alastore.ala.org/detail.aspx?ID=3650

Spotify.com can give you some great recs for music. So far I'm enjoying the mixes other people are making. This week's fav song comes from my friend Ellen and my 4 year old Goddaughter, Kate. Find "Home" by Edward Sharpe & the Magnetic Zeroes.

All these fav things are making for my busy week a good week. Salut!

Saturday, May 19, 2012

On the Flip Side

So I'm not having a great day. Well today is better than yesterday when the issues actually made themselves present, but today is another day of over thinking it and just generally stewing about it. I'd like to think that I'm able to move on but it's ok. Everyone needs a bad day every now and then. So my recommends for today are about things that are "bad" but really good. They aren't going to make the day better but hey, it could always be worse!

Bad movies. There are the movies that are seriously bad as in bad writing, bad acting etc. I'm going to put "Titantic" on that list. I'm sorry. I hate that movie. A lot of whining and just too much hype. Another bad movie? I was not a fan of "Chicago." I thought the acting was forced and it wore me out. Now there are also bad movies in that bad things happen to the characters. I actually sometimes really like those movies. "28 Days" is one. Another one she is in is "Hope Floats." Girl can't get a break. I like them both. Finally, "Moonlight and Valentino." I am sure some critics put this in both bad categories. I happen to like it. Elizabeth Perkins' husband goes for a run and had a deathly accident. Her girl group (neighbor, sister, etc.) all pull out the stops to help her out of the funk. Gwyneth Paltrow, Kathleen Turner and Whoopi Goldberg are in it. There is a girl power scene at the end--sort of a good bye to her husband's memory and her former life. Jon Bon Jovi shows up too. A bad kind of good.

Ok other bad things. Well chocolate is bad for you but I've heard if you eat a piece of really dark chocolate (like 80%+), that's not as bad. Technically, thunderstorms seem to make things here really bad. I happen to like them but they are always blowing down trees and leaving dirt scattered everywhere. Plus they bring out the bugs. Those I really hate. So the storms are bad but the rain is pretty good. However we are getting into summer and the heat is really bad. Heat and humidity--all too much for me. I hate going outside pretty much past April. Also with the heat comes the sun. I'm pretty fair so I need lots of sunscreen. This much sun wears me out.

"Bad"-- Michael Jackson. He wrote the song right? Not my favorite of his songs but since it's called "Bad"--I'm going to include it. Other songs I really don't like. "Wind Beneath my Wings," "My Heart will go on," most country stuff and almost all those Disney Princess songs. What about songs with bad, as in hard, drumming, lyrics or guitar playing? "Blue on Black" by Kenny Wayne Shepard, the cover of "Immigrant Song" done by Trent Reznor and Karen O, the drumming on Phil Collins "In the Air Tonight" and pretty much all the old Clapton.

Lots of books have bad characters. Some people think the "Twilight" books are bad because they are sappy and badly written. There is that whole which character is worse thing going on? Lots of really bad characters. I happen to love "The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo" series but there are some seriously bad characters in those. What defines bad? Reputation? Renegade? All the kids from "The Outsiders." People in their town thought they were bad. What about the classic (and really bad) children's book Der Struwwelpeter. He's a creepy character with long hair and nails. Not a great story for kids.

Not a lot of other things are going to make me feel much better today. Sometimes it's just ok to be grumpy. But these are just a few things that are both bad...and good, so in a way, not so bad.


Sunday, May 13, 2012

A few recs from me in the spirit of my youngest sister

I got to spend some time with one of my sisters this weekend. She is awesome...a breath of fresh air, truly unique and free spirited. So I'm going to recommend a few things that I think she'd totally endorse.

I recommend Modcloth.com. It's a great site with a variety of vintage designs. Most of them are reasonable and they have every size from very small or extended sizes. There are some cute things if you like the throwback style.

Dishes that don't match? Want to build a totally cute collection? Try Anthropologie. I have some plates from them and just love them. Most come from various countries around the world and are dishwasher safe *bonus*.

Wines from New Zealand. Kim Crawford are reasonably priced and good. Easy to find. But a stop to World Market while they have their white wine sale might also give you what you need to try a few new ones.

For the truly eclectic...try Etsy. I can't even tell you how many great things I've found on Etsy. I have bought my holiday cards from the last few years but I've also asked many different designers to create something for me, like book plates. Never disappointed. Micro-commerce...supporting small businesses...good thing!

We just did a book club with book and a movie...Read "Abundance" by Sena Jeter Naslund and watch Sofia Coppola's "Marie Antoinette." Awesome soundtrack, compelling story and a great watch and read.

Just a few things...enjoy!


Friday, May 11, 2012

Mother's Day I Recommends

Flowers: I think it's good to find your go-to local greenery, nursery and garden center. If you are at a loss however, I recommend Proflowers.com. They have never let me down and if you sign up for email then you'll get some coupons email.

Starbucks has a new compilation CD called "Every Mother Counts." Supports a nonprofit started by Christy Turlington. Check it out. http://www.starbucks.com/blog/every-mother-counts.

Just discovered the YA series done by Kathy Reichs ("Bones") called "Virals" set in Charleston. A quick and interesting science lead with a strong female character. Loving it. My mother has just discovered YA books so you might want to share a few favs with your mom.

I saw "Dark Shadows." I didn't know much about the original series but the film had me chuckling. A lot. It's witty and interesting and purposefully cheesy. There are some definite over the top scenes (those last fight scenes are a little much) but you just have to LOVE Johnny Depp. The writing is snappy and Depp's dialogue is great. My mom happens to really like Johnny Depp although I'm thinking that perhaps a double viewing of the original and the remake of "Freaky Friday" might also be fun!

My mom likes sweet wine. There is a Moscato d'Asti that I received as a gift in nice blue bottle. You might want to open one with your mom. Slainte!

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Ok here are some of my "I Recommends" for today:

Music: Beach House. I enjoyed the NPR recommendation about their newest release but a friend recommended past albums. I've been listening on Spotify and just love. A great something to play at the office.

TV: Scandal: Loving all the intrigue of politics. Also Harry's Law...the acting is just terrific and also pokes fun at itself. But what I love the most? GRIMM. Terrific. Acting, sets, and of course the connection to the stories. Just amazing.

Places to visit: It's starting to get hot down here. I'm thinking North...like Vermont. A great time to visit the East Coast...Vermont, New Hampshire and Maine. Gorgeous and so quaint. Great people.

Wine? I just tried a red pinot noir called Snap Dragon. Light and enjoyable. A good red for the impending summer.

Food: Cheese. Farmers Cheese and Marscapone. Try them in some recipes. Yum.

Old Movie: Tortilla Soup. A charmer. Hispanic-Americans and a dysfunctional family. Great. Enjoy the music. Oh and the food!

Ok for the girls: the best waterproof black eye liner is made by Benefit. You can cover over it with colored shadow but it's great.

Online discount store. Onekingslane.com Check it out. Great stuff.

Sunday, May 06, 2012

Back to Basics

I just read through all my blogs of the past. There was something I wrote at the very beginning--"my recommendations." They were bits and pieces of different things from books to music to food. I just came back from a forum/meeting where people from all over the south who do my job (and similar) come together to share to make our profession and our agencies stronger. We did a group of introductions followed by "I recommend." So this reminded me to get back to that here as well.

I recommend NPR's Tiny Desk Concerts. So awesome. Sometimes it is someone I've never heard of and last week is one of my old favorites, the Cowboy Junkies. Good stuff on the music side.

I also recommend The Pioneer Woman, Ree Drummond. She has a blog and now a cookbook but sometimes I just like her photographs of family or livestock out there on that large ranch in Oklahoma. She also makes the best cinnamon rolls. I have not tried them although my friend Julie has and God love her for trying. Not easy but they look SO good!

Substitute for french fries? Eggplant fries. Gervais & Vine does them here in Columbia with almost no breading just a coating which is good for my gluten intolerant stomach. Plus they let me feel like I'm eating one of my favorite foods but I'm eating something better for me. Side note--I used to hate eggplant. It was fleshy and icky until my friend Jo grilled it. Leave it to an Italian to show me the light. Now I love it.

I was looking back through background movies--those I can put on in the background while I'm cleaning. Something I've seen so many times and really enjoy. My sister Allison and I share this and many of our favorites...Under the Tuscan Sun, 27 Dresses, The Wedding Date, How to Make an American Quilt, Because I Said So, Gosford Park, Mr. Mom, Amelie, Love Actually, The Ref, and The Devil Wears Prada. I'm cleaning today so I'm sure one of those will grace my TV.

Finally, I've been traveling quite a bit and I feel like I never finish anything. So pick one thing and do it start to finish. I have a zillion projects that will probably never get done but I also have many other things that I can do--finish a book, put away all my clothes, cook a whole meal, write those thank you notes. That is what I'm working towards. If I can't finish one thing per day then definitely finish one thing per week--particularly for myself. I'm great at doing things for others but my stuff goes on the back burner. So that is my new goal. Seems simple but I'll let you know how I do.

I'm signing off listening to Ceremony by New Order. Love that song. Was in the Marie Antoinette soundtrack recently. Love that whole soundtrack and the film is a mix of color, vision, truth and irreverent. Watch it again. Good stuff.

Sunday, April 01, 2012

The Whale Rider--recommended reading

The Whale Rider 
by Witi Ihimaera

Witi Ihimaera’s The Whale Rider is one of those rare books that is so pure and so moving that it makes you believe anything is possible. Most specifically, it makes you believe that a book that’s basically about cultural rituals among the Maori people of New Zealand isn’t only fascinating and entertaining, but accessible. Though the book features a tattooed whale and characters who seem to possess strange and unusual abilities, it’s basically just about a family.

That family is lead by fearsome Maori chief Koro Apirana and his salty but loving wife, Nanny Flowers, and includes their grandsons Porourangi and Rawiri, the story’s narrator. As the story opens, Porourangi, the older of the two, has just had a daughter, inflaming his grandfather. You see, power in the tribe handed down through the oldest son of each generation’s oldest son. The birth of a daughter breaks the lineage. But unlike Koro, Nanny Flowers and the others don’t find the little girl useless.

In fact, as she gets older, she possesses talents that echo those of the ancient Whale Rider for whom she was named. But her abilities are of little comfort to Kahu, a girl who adores her great-grandfather and is shattered by his constant rejection and assertions that “she is of no use to me.”

It’s this craving for her great-grandfather’s love that provides Kahu’s real motivation. Ihimaera’s writing is just about perfect. His characters, (with, oddly, the exception of Kahu’s father) are fleshed-out, interesting people. Rawiri and Nanny Flowers are especially lively and colorful. Rawiri is, of course, a devoted grandson and loving uncle, but he’s also a bit of a wild child who hangs with a motorcycle gang and is sometimes mistaken for a thug. Nanny is also loving, even to her stubborn husband. But she isn’t above regular threats of divorce, or smacking her wandering grandson Rawiri in the head.
But the heart of the story lies with Koro and Kahu, two characters both so single-minded and determined that they must be related. The relationship is especially interesting because Kahu seems to understand why her great-grandfather excludes her from tribal rituals and from his love, even as she disagrees with him. The result is a profoundly enchanting story that will hold in its grip right up to its tender conclusion.
© 2003 by Amanda Cuda for Curled Up With a Good Book



The Film:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0298228/
A contemporary story of love, rejection and triumph as a young Maori girl fights to fulfill a destiny her grandfather refuses to recognize.



A few musings on the Young Adult part of the Hunger Games

I read the Hunger Games and I enjoyed it. It doesn't have to be a great piece of literature to be enjoyable of course. It was fast paced and very descriptive. Did I know what it would be about before I read it? Somewhat. Was I surprised after I read it? Yes.

One of the most common debates I have with friends--librarians and parents--I know a lot of advanced readers particularly in the young grades. (I was one of them. My mother let me read whatever I thought I wanted to read...but she told me we could always talk about it.)  It is always a challenge to find things to read that don't have content above their maturity level.

I have created lists featuring strong female characters. I think that young girls can and should find role models in books. There are some great books out there. Again the challenge for a very advanced young reader is the type of content. I have a friend who has a child that is an advanced reader. She doesn't want her to read books about families breaking up, the father leaving or divorce because she has a husband that works a lot. She doesn't want her daughter to project the fears from the book to their life. She wants to be able to guide that discussion, so she reads all the books first. I wish everyone could but that is why librarians can be ever so handy. I have recommended many books for her daughter but it does give me pause. What about "Moon Over Manifest." Terrific book--award winning, thoughtful and well written. But how do you explain to an 8 year old about the world wars and why people with Italian or Polish last names were treated differently? (Even more confusing if she has one.) I don't think children need to be sheltered but of course I think there is a time and place, and unfortunately, the media is pushing that time and place up so it's no longer the tweens that we're worrying about but our seven and eight year olds.

When they make these books into movies--and there have been so many from Twilight and The Hunger Games to Angus, Thongs and Full-Frontal Snogging; or into TV shows of the likes of Gossip Girl and Pretty Little Liars, it is extra hard to avoid the hype because everyone is talking about them. They hit the covers of every magazine from 17 to Entertainment Weekly and Time. In the case of the Hunger Games, just because of the visual nature, it had so many adult overtones that I don't even think a child could understand (so many historical references--i'm sure you could catch them: Nazi/war, repression, Big Brother/1984, Civil Rights marches and the Great Depression). So that just leaves the action and the romance. While they downplayed the romance part and explained the purpose of the romance (not as much as the book but still), there was really no way to avoid the fact that children are killed by other children/young adults and they filmed them as graphically as they needed to be. That could be scary for kids to think that this is real--especially in the current climate of school violence and bullying.

I am sure that there are many more better written essays on the Hunger Games (book and/or movie) but these were just a few things that I have been thinking about. As for books with strong female characters, I'll post that in another blog post. Here's a hint...start with The True Confessions of Charlotte Doyle by Avi.

Wednesday, February 08, 2012

Support the Free Medical Clinic Supply Drives

You have probably heard that song “Another Day in Paradise.” I am fairly certain it rose up the musical pop charts when it was released. The author, musician Phil Collins wanted to draw attention to the problem of homelessness. I think the lyrics say it all…people are on the street, they ask for help. Other people ignore them. Some are embarrassed, some are angry and others think this is the way that life goes. Having worked with nonprofit organizations for more than twenty years, I have always been on the side of watching out for the underserved. Whatever mission my organization supported, I was right in line with it giving my time and energy, and sometimes my money too. When I moved to Columbia, the recession just about kicked into full gear. I was trying to figure out how to make all the adjustments I needed and start a new job in support of libraries and literacy. The entire time I have been here, it has not been easy. I have watched people lose their jobs and try to feed their families. The idea of getting sick can be catastrophic. I know my medications are expensive and I have insurance. Imagine what it’s like with nothing.



As a part of the Leadership Columbia Class of 2012, the class has chosen as its service project to support the Free Medical Clinic on Harden Street and its mission of providing quality healthcare, at no cost, to residents of the community who cannot pay for such services and who have no health insurance. We are working on the existing building by providing a covered walkway and inside refurbishment, as well as coordinating a community supply drive campaign throughout February and March to collect items needed by the Clinic on a recurrent basis.  For every item we can have donated, such as toilet paper, paper towel or copy paper, that is less money that is taken from providing patient care. If you live in and around the Columbia/Midlands area, be on the look out for supply drive locations.



Supply Donation Locations & Dates: All locations 9am to 3pm

Saturday, February 11th

Walgreens: 9001 Two Notch Road, Columbia, SC 29223

Walgreens: 4467 Devine Street, Columbia, SC 29205

Office Depot: 252 Harbison Blvd, Columbia, SC 29212

Saturday, February 18th

Walgreens: Village at Sandhills, 175 Forum Drive, Columbia, SC 29229

Walgreens: 3501 Forest Drive, Columbia, SC 29204

Sunday, February 19th

Walmart: 1180 Dutch Fork Road, Irmo, SC 29063

Saturday, February 25th

Walgreens: 1941 Blossom Street, Columbia, SC 29205

Walgreens: 4520 Hardscrabble Road, Columbia, SC 29229

Chick-fil-A: 2299 Augusta Road, West Columbia, SC 29169



Items Needed

Lexmark T650, HP05A, HP27x Printer Toner Cartridges

Brother TN 420, Brother TN350 Fax Machine Toner Cartidges and Drum

Extra Large Paper Lunch Bags

Paper Towels

Toilet Tissue

Letter Sized Copy Paper

Legal Sized Copy Paper

Binder Clips (All Sizes)

Disposable Rubber Gloves (Medium & Large)

Hand Soap

Hand Sanitizer

Facial Tissue

Highlighters (yellow, green, pink)

Pens (black, blue)

File Folders

Letter Sized Note Tablets

Printer Ink Cartridges: HP 57, HP 56

Paper Clips (large, regular)

Staples

Office tape

Packing tape

Gift cards: Walgreens, Office Depot, Walmart



Please also help us spread the word. There are Saturday supply drop offs going on all month as well as other special events. You can keep up to date with all the events through the blog:  http://freemedicalcliniclifesaver.wordpress.com and Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/BeaLifeSaver.